Why do people act out in violence?

I've been thinking about this for some time...looking for the source of "why would people do this?"

Why do people feel the only way to be heard is to use force?

Are those black Americans doing this?

Or, is it whites - doing violence for being told being white is bad and no longer good enough.

Or, is the reason for aggression in society and 70% of prison populations are black because we make good decisions....not. You know things like theft (what's yours is mine) and aggravated assault crime (I want your stuff) or "you looked at me funny" kind of beatdowns, or straight out killings?

No matter.

What matters are the reasons and motivations behind this kind of behavior - the miss-wiring in their minds and in their social programming of "what is right" and "what is wrong" kind of behavior.

In a world where you can't express yourself, you resort to acts of power - call it aggression and physical violence to express yourself. You know no other way. It's what you were taught and it's the first thing you think of in most situations.

So let me lay out three (3) logical reasons for largely unprovoked aggression:

1). They don't know any other way to express themselves (as I said.).

The core reasons here are a poor education (informal and formal) and from a lifetime of using physical force to operate within their world. Why else does everyone carry a gun in the hood?

Because you need a gun to "project force or defend against force." It's that simple.

No matter, it's how this class of people - physical aggression is the only way to express yourself...period...end of story. Those who learn find a way put and up. Those who don't, go to jail...multiple times, which leads me to the next reason.

2) The perps don't know the right thing to do and choose the wrong thing to do in situations where emotions rise up.

So why would you not know the right thing to do?

Why would you choose the wrong thing to do?

Let me propose it is from a host of reasons: poor family training, absent church upbringing, absent father syndrome resulting in unchecked aggressions - even "ghetto peer acceptance standards."

These folks "Make bad choices because they don't know how to make good ones - or they refuse to make good ones." Either way the results are the same. Bad Choices.

Data is in that absent fathers lead to all sorts of mental problems in the child later in life. It's a habitual problem and comes generation after generation.

The church has largely failed to reach society. It's viewed as not important and therefore irrelevant.

3) When a class of people, no matter the race, receive handouts their entire life, you learn to make noise to get more handouts. If you don't get them you beat war drums, or threaten social unrest...even violence. In some extreme cases you might even bite (nip) the hand that feeds you. The problem in your eyes is the neighbor down the street, the shop owner, the po-po, society, the system, the man - anyone but you.

It is "narcissism in full bloom" and it's never my fault. We have created a class of professional victims and it works every time. The "My behavior is not my fault" syndrome is rampant across society - and the media is fueling it everyday by making martyrs out of people who made bad decisions. It's not sad, it's down right counter productive and a blight on society....some would say the media is now a cancer on society. I would tend to agree, giving the propaganda spewed over the last 10 years.

My own kids used to say this to me "It's not my fault."

In their view, "Accept no responsibility and usually the problem will look for a solution somewhere else" - usually out of frustration, not from an actual solution.

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So there you have three (3) reasons why microaggressions and social unrest are on the rise.

It's not the Asians asking for a beatdown, it not the Whites being told they are not good enough and it's all your fault. It's the perps, no matter what color they are and the bad decisions are theirs and theirs alone. It's the individual - providing more evidence that 70 years of "welfare and social codling" has created a subclass whose only means to communicate is threats and violence.

This is why the police frequently must resort to using force during a contact when a potential perp is challenged to "do the right thing" - be it "drop the gun, stop resisting, get in the car, don't resist, come only peacefully."

It ain't going to happen folks. "Pretty Please" doesn't work with perps. Just ask any cop who deals with this group every day. If you make Pretty Please your policy, it only feeds their ego that more is required.

In my humble opinion we (society and government) have created "walking social time bombs" - with the fuse held out for anyone, at anytime (Asian, white, black) to light - even You.

Because reasoning doesn't work and force is the only thing perps know, you must be prepared.

This is another reason why we need the Second Amendment.

It balances the force equation.

I refuse to take ownership of what someone else's bad decisions and it's wrong to ask me to accept that distortion.

It's a lie and it needs to stop.